The Sad Reality “Sheng Nu” Asian Women Face | China Dating

Single and educated Asian women living in China are facing relentless pressure to find a husband at an earlier age. When they reach 27 years old and beyond, they will be one of the Chinese women who are described to be ‘leftover women’ or sheng nu. It may sound derogatory for young, successful, and career-oriented Chinese ladies to be called that way, however, that is their culture.

The reality is that when Chinese girls reach 27 years old, the chances of finding a husband among the local men in their country are getting slimmer. They become unwanted by the single men in China. This can be a sad fact that they have to face, as they are traditional women who believe that having a family of their own is what will bring fulfillment in their lives.

In Chinese culture, the husband is expected to be the one who is dominant in the relationship, as well as in the family. This is why most local men don’t marry a ‘leftover’ Chinese woman because she is believed to be tough and independent. The majority of Chinese believe that when a woman has a degree then she can become bossy and won’t follow what her husband wants. Chinese men are threatened by this kind of woman.

However, the truth is that if a man just knows how to treat a woman right, then there’s nothing to be threatened about. After all, successful relationships are not about your financial stability and achievements in life. Successful interracial couples say that interracial relationships only flourish when there are compatibility and communication.

Now, Asian women don’t wait forever in finding their life partner. If they are unwanted with the men in their country, then they are trying to expand their dating horizons through interracial dating. There are foreign men who are wanting to marry Asian girls from China and this is their chance to fill each other’s emptiness in finding the love that they want and deserve.

Meet elegant and love-seeking Asian women in the Philippines, China and Thailand.